Love in Married Life
Say Bismillah BEFORE coming in the house, that way shaitan will not be allowed to come in the house with you
say ASALAAMU ALAYKUM when
entering, and BEFORE closing the door say Bismillah. So now your shaitan
will not have a place to sleep that nigt. One man said once he entered
the house without saying Asalaamu alaykum and then all of a sudden he
felt so angry at his wife. So he left and then came back in and then
said the greetiing
Make her feel SECURE: NO MORE SAYING :"I will divorce you"
Avoid getting angry.....keep your wudu
Looking good and smell great
Dont be rigid with her
When she comes to sit, move over and tell her that you saved a seat for her and warmed it too!
Be a good listener
Do not argue
Call your wife by the best names she likes to hear
Give her a pleasant surprise
preserving the tongue
Overlook her shortcomings
Show her your appreciation
Encourage her to keep in touch with her FAMILY
Choose the topic of her interest
In front of her relatives show that she is woderful
Give each other gifts, you will love each other
Getting rid of routine for her
Thinking good of your wife
Add a drop of patience especially when she's on her period or pregnant
Be patient with her Jealousy and accept it
Be humble even tho your may have a doctor degree and she takes care of your heart, your kids. Dont look down on her
Help out at home!
Do not force your wife to love your mother and father, but rather encourage her to respect them
Show your wife that she is the ideal wife and make her feel that she is
Remember your wife with the duaa'
Leave the past to Allah, you are not responsible for her past.
Dont show her that your doing her a favor when you bring money home. The rizq comes from Allah.
Satan is your enemy, not your wife (Shaitan LOVES to separate man from wife) Deal with shaitan as an enemy
Feed your wife with your hand, you get blessings!
Treat her like a precious pearl, protect her from the envy of man and jinn
Show her your pearl,your smile, to your wife, its a sadaqah
Small stones that add up wil cause a wall to build between your wife and you. Little challenge that you neglect cause this. Deal with them appropriately
Avoid bieng moody and harsh hearted
Respect her thinking and sggestions
Help her to dig in her heart for her own success within
Serious: Respect the intimate relationship and the boundaries. She is a fragile vessel so handle her carefully. Respect the boundaries of the intimate relationship
Help her to take care of the childrens
Give her the gift of the tonge, nice compliments
Sit and eat with your wife
Let her know that your travelling, and when your coming DO NOT GIVE HER A SRPRISE VISIT
Dont leave the house when argument comes up
The home has secrecy, dont expose your secret family life
Encorage each other in ibaada, go for hajj and umrah
Know her rights upon you
Live with them in kindness and goodness, both in happiness and good times
Send a messenger of Intimacy before Intimacy:...a kiss....A man cant just jump on her like a bull
Dont discss a dispute you had with your wife with others
The health of your wife is YOUR health. So take care of her health
Get rid of the"Always bieng right:
Share your happiness with her
Have mercy on her weakness. Because she is fragile have mercy on her
Be the one she leans on in times of difficulty
ACCEPT HER AS IS (Accept her weakness, you may dislike one of her manners but there will be one manner that you do like. If your try to fix her or change her you will break her.)
Have good intention
Make her feel SECURE: NO MORE SAYING :"I will divorce you"
Avoid getting angry.....keep your wudu
Looking good and smell great
Dont be rigid with her
When she comes to sit, move over and tell her that you saved a seat for her and warmed it too!
Be a good listener
Do not argue
Call your wife by the best names she likes to hear
Give her a pleasant surprise
preserving the tongue
Overlook her shortcomings
Show her your appreciation
Encourage her to keep in touch with her FAMILY
Choose the topic of her interest
In front of her relatives show that she is woderful
Give each other gifts, you will love each other
Getting rid of routine for her
Thinking good of your wife
Add a drop of patience especially when she's on her period or pregnant
Be patient with her Jealousy and accept it
Be humble even tho your may have a doctor degree and she takes care of your heart, your kids. Dont look down on her
Help out at home!
Do not force your wife to love your mother and father, but rather encourage her to respect them
Show your wife that she is the ideal wife and make her feel that she is
Remember your wife with the duaa'
Leave the past to Allah, you are not responsible for her past.
Dont show her that your doing her a favor when you bring money home. The rizq comes from Allah.
Satan is your enemy, not your wife (Shaitan LOVES to separate man from wife) Deal with shaitan as an enemy
Feed your wife with your hand, you get blessings!
Treat her like a precious pearl, protect her from the envy of man and jinn
Show her your pearl,your smile, to your wife, its a sadaqah
Small stones that add up wil cause a wall to build between your wife and you. Little challenge that you neglect cause this. Deal with them appropriately
Avoid bieng moody and harsh hearted
Respect her thinking and sggestions
Help her to dig in her heart for her own success within
Serious: Respect the intimate relationship and the boundaries. She is a fragile vessel so handle her carefully. Respect the boundaries of the intimate relationship
Help her to take care of the childrens
Give her the gift of the tonge, nice compliments
Sit and eat with your wife
Let her know that your travelling, and when your coming DO NOT GIVE HER A SRPRISE VISIT
Dont leave the house when argument comes up
The home has secrecy, dont expose your secret family life
Encorage each other in ibaada, go for hajj and umrah
Know her rights upon you
Live with them in kindness and goodness, both in happiness and good times
Send a messenger of Intimacy before Intimacy:...a kiss....A man cant just jump on her like a bull
Dont discss a dispute you had with your wife with others
The health of your wife is YOUR health. So take care of her health
Get rid of the"Always bieng right:
Share your happiness with her
Have mercy on her weakness. Because she is fragile have mercy on her
Be the one she leans on in times of difficulty
ACCEPT HER AS IS (Accept her weakness, you may dislike one of her manners but there will be one manner that you do like. If your try to fix her or change her you will break her.)
Have good intention
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